For the last few weeks, I’ve been settling into the school
year and my new routine. My morning starts with watching the sun rise over the fields
behind my house, listening to the birds wake up and start to sing, and tripping
over the cat as he purrs and wraps himself around my legs when I go to let the chicken
out. By 6am I am usually rushing eat my breakfast and finish heating my
bathwater so I can start my walk to school. It takes me 15-20 minutes to walk
to school, and I am always accompanied by at least a dozen primary students
following close behind me, whispering about my hair and purple toenail polish. As
of right now I teach anywhere from 25 to 40 periods, and am present at the
school for about 35 hours each week. After a long day of teaching, I get home
to cook dinner while the cat and chicken BOTH try to get on lap, and watch the
sunset through the smoke from my imbabura. So that is what a typical day looks
like for me while I am here, and you always have to throw in the occasional
monsoon that floods my house and knocks down a tree, or the herds of small
children who try to visit after school, just to mix things up a little bit. In
other news, I’ve had my first real bout of home sickness while being really
sick with some kind of mystery parasite wreaking havoc in my intestines. Still
not sure what it is, but soon enough our wonderful PC doctors will figure it
all out and I’ll be good as new!
A few moments worth sharing:
So almost every day I end up arguing with the same two old
men about why I don’t have a husband and children, don’t want a husband, and
don’t need a husband. Naturally, they speak zero English so we struggle through
in Kinyarwanda and they insist that I know French (because everyone must know French) so some French ends up
getting mixed in there. This is every, single, day… A few weeks ago, one of the
old men found me and showed me a picture of a random white woman and a Rwandan
man. He then insisted that it was me in the picture. I repeatedly told him “no,
that’s not me. Her hair is blonde and she has blue eyes”. He was NOT swayed by
my arguments, so he went and got the other old man who wears a cheetah print
safari hat and walks with a cane in one hand, 3 goats on leashes in the other.
Now they are both looking at the picture, then looking at me, and back to the
picture while quietly agreeing that it is in fact me in the picture. With the
two men in agreement, I was unable to make them believe that it wasn’t me in
the photo. At this point a crowd had gathered to watch me argue relentlessly with
the old men. Eventually I gave up and had to continue to school.
I taught in secondary school for the first time last week,
nothing serious, but we worked on introducing ourselves and talked about future
career aspirations. The primary students have their 20 minute break while the
secondary students are still in class.. Hopefully you can already see how this
is a problem. So as I am trying to teach, all of my students from primary are
running up to the classroom, hanging on the window bars, and even running into
the classroom when I was writing on the blackboard. This results in me having
to chase the children, big grins on their faces, while I am trying to teach and
keep control of the class that I am actually in. As angry as the kiddos made
me, they are too cute to stay mad at when they run up to you and ambush you
with genuine hugs.
So despite all of the sickness, house-flooding monsoons, and
strange interactions, I can still say that I love my job and I am happy to be
here. Knowing that my parents are coming to visit in July is also very helpful
because I am getting excited about planning for their visit and what we will do
together. With my new routine and all of the craziness that is my life, I know
the next 21 months will fly by and I will wish they had gone by more slowly. It
is time to de-stress and remind myself how beautiful this country is, and how
truly lucky I am to be here.